Tagaktay with Tintay

Still ranting over crushed pagkatao, stepped-on persona, and crippled personhood??? hehehe pinatulan ko yung parinig ni mama to get celibate, the maid whom she's been wanting to get the services of for the longest time. Asked wokas to join my trip to cold tagaytay. Angel has work. Jouh has dad. Tintoy is a bum, hayun! Sakto!

Two damsels in distress, isang pack-up queen at isang restless lass under excruciating silent treatment, perfect combination diba?!, proceeded with the plan. Our flight up to the highlands was very heated, heto yung panahon na parang sasabog yung kotse sa init ng ulo namin ni tintoy. We exchanged our "the-moment-of-flare" stories. Mas gwabeh yung akin may physical struggling, kay tintoy mental torment yung nangyari.

Heniweis, we got to the coffeehouse, the place where celia the maid lives, at 3pm. And it was like a Wish ko Lang Moment. Ka-touch! She was practically crying when she welcomed me, telling me that she has been praying for this moment that one of us in the family will go to her and hire her services. Kakatuwa! Ibig sabihin we are the answer to her prayers =)

After meeting up with celia, tina and I decided to try out the new restaurant we passed by the roundabout, Tootsies! The place is a mix of country and victorian styles, very nice, warm, and really homey. We ordered for the house specialty, chicken pork adobo pandesal coupled with pesto and shrimp pasta. HINDI masarap! As tina puts it, nothing fabulous! Saka yung pesto and shrimp pasta, dapat pesto pasta na lang nilagay nila sa menu dahil isang pirasong hipon lang na pinutol-putol ng maliit ang kasama, disappointing talaga and mind you, ang mahal dun ha. Not worth your good bucks.

Over our snacks, tina and I exchanged intellectual stands, emotional feats, and experiencial churvaness. Here are some of the most outstanding na nagpa-usok ng tenga namin:

-- We are TROPHY girlfriends. Proud na proud silang maging partner tayo dahil may breeding tayo at desente. Ang mga hinayupak, pagkatapos mong hawaan ng modo at matinong asta, pagkatapos makaranas ng decent taste, better lifestyle biglang lilingon sa iba at ibang hitad na ang makikinabang sa lahat ng inayos ayos mo sa kanya grrrrr... na pagkatapos tumino ang buhay nila nang dahil sayo, magaastang parang akala mo kung sino at ikaw pa ang tatapak tapakan. How dare them! Hoy, alam nyo ang pinanggalingan nyo, and your background will be in your shadows forever. Kaya wag kayong magmamalaki! Iba na lang... ang palakihin ;)

-- Proven and tested, kung papaano i-treat ng lalaki ang mommy nya, ganung-ganun ang trato nya din sayo. Heto one big slap for me. If you see your partner take his mother for granted. Do not make the slightest effort to make her feel special. At times, yells at her and despises her ... then you better back off. Chances are yuyurakan nya lang ang pagkatao mo to the extent na masusuklam ka na sa kanya dahil you would feel na receiver lang ang role nya sa relationship nyo. Hihigupin nya lang ang lahat ng feelings mo, love, care, concern tapos ikaw maghihintay ka sa wala dahil HINDI NYA NAIISIP na SELF-CENTERED sha. Tapos sa bandang dulo ikaw pa ang masama, you'll be tagged as impatient ... bakit hindi ka na lang daw manahimik at makuntento sa mga ginagawa nya. Tapos hangagang sa one day mare-realize mo na CONTROL FREAK pala sha ... na nagawa ka na nyang de-susi at doormat ... wala kang say, hindi ka na dapat mag-isip, mahalin mo lang dapat sha at sundin ng sundin. Put------ diba!!!! Dapat ang inasawa mo eh isang dalagang bukid, hindi yung babaeng may pinag-aralan ... sa exclusive school pumasok, student leader, presidential awardee, at proven achiever. Ganyan talaga. Sad but true.

-- okay na na minahal mo sha ... sumunod ka sa lahat ng gusto nya ... kaso tinatrato ka namang parang katulong, tauhan nya ... na HINDI NA LAHAT NG BAGAY NA NANGYAYARI SA LOOB NG BAHAY NYO EH "DAPAT" MONG MALAMAN ... unconsciously, i hope so, ginawa ka na nyang mayordoma with favors ... ang mga taong hindi dapat alam ang nangyayari sa loob ng bahay ay mga slave na questionable pa ang pagkatao ... KAPAG ASAWA KA, "DAPAT" ALAM MO ANG LAHAT!!! household, home nyo yun eh.

-- Kapag mahal mo ang isang tao, HINDI MO ITATAGO! kailangan, putulan ang buhok mo sa harap para makita mo nang malinaw ang lahat. Hindi yung itatago mo na nga ang noo at mata mo, pati girlfriend mo iatatago mo pa ... ano ka ba? cave man??? sorry ...

-- Last point ... a nagger is a woman triggered okay gels ... nanay na ko ... i need to be clear of everything ... as in all details ... you'll understand when your time comes ...


Konti lang yan folks ... because tina and I outdid angel sa pagtaltal ... as in non-stop raving and ranting the whole time ... whew! kapagod! pero this trip i love ... i was refreshed and a bit loosened.